#611. Going to church while on vacation.
Sep 3rd by adminCan we get a ruling on this one? Seriously, can we please come to some sort of consensus decision that we can all live with, because right now, when I don’t go to church when I’m out of town on vacation, I kind of feel like I’m taking a vacation from Jesus as well as from my job.
And that’s just not the case. I’m still doing quiet times in the morning, but when it’s Sunday and we’re at the beach for a few days, do I have to go to church? I feel like I have four different options when I find myself in this dilemma and each one offers it’s own risks and benefits.
4 Ways to Spend Your Sunday Morning While on Vacation
1. Go to a random church.
Benefits:
You’ll get to experience a completely different worship service than the one you’re used to back home. Maybe, even though you don’t raise your hands during worship at your church, you’re a hand raising worshipper and just needed the momentum of an entourage of other hand raisers to get you started. And when you visit a more charismatic church than you normally attend while on vacation, you’ll get swept up in the atmosphere and return home with a pound cake approach to hand raising.
Risks:
Depending on the church, you might have to perform any number of first time visitor activities including: raising your hand, standing up and telling people where you are from, shot blocking multiple invitations to the first time visitors’ lunch, refusing to volunteer to teach Sunday School, carrying a gospel gift bag around and many others. The only way to spare yourself is to make it insanely obvious that you’re on vacation. Wear a grass hat, hula skirt and gobs of Hawaiian Tropic suntan oil. On the downside, you’ll have a really difficult time staying in your seat if they have wooden pews because your body will be so slick that you’ll slide like a cloth in a lemon pledge commercial, but on the plus side everyone will know you’re just passing through.
2. Go to a vacation worship service.
Benefits:
A vacation worship service is a unique worship experience that locals put on to make tourists feel at home. When I was a kid we spent our vacations at Sunset Beach, North Carolina. Every Sunday morning a family there would host a puppet/worship service near the pier. Camp grounds are also a prime place to find these kinds of things as well. I regret that no one has stolen my puppet troupe name yet, Strings of Mercy, but on the plus side with this approach you’ll get to have a unique kind of worship moment.
Risks:
If you’re terrified of puppets, then the biggest risk, is well, the puppets. But if you’re not, the real fear is that you’re the only one that attends the service. Imagine sitting under a pier, by yourself, while a husband wife singing team serenades you directly with “Our God is an Awesome God.”
3. Do your own thing.
Benefits:
You get to practice having a home church. You get to say when it starts, what you’ll cover and get your family involved in putting on your very own church service.
Risks:
People have incredibly high expectations these days when it comes to church. Your brother, your cousin, maybe even your wife might think your message isn’t relevant enough. Or maybe it’s too relevant and they wanted to be fed more. If you have kids, they’re probably going to be expecting some gold fish and a captivating story about Noah or Jonah or Daniel. (This is the “animal triad.” When it comes to teaching kids Bible stories, the old adage is “when it doubt, bust animal stories out.” I think Billy Graham first said that but I could be wrong.) And unless you’ve got some sort of laser show or fog machine, don’t expect your Uncle to get up out of his seat when you try to lead everybody in a worship song. Worst of all you don’t really get to critique the sermon afterward because you preached it.
4. Go jogging instead.
Benefits:
There’s a myriad of benefits, depending on how you use your time instead of going to church. You could go for a long walk on the beach, go fishing with your son, hike a trail. Benefits would include fresh air, relaxation, fellowship with friends, quiet reflective moment with God, etc.
Risks:
My judgment. Actually, that’s not really a risk so much as it is a promise. If I am driving to church and I see you on a Sunday morning out jogging and you’re not wearing a shirt that says “I attend Saturday night church services,” I’m going to judge you. And then I’ll realize I’m doing it and feel guilty and now we’re both in trouble. So thanks for that.
I guess the fifth option is to not obsess about things like this, to instead trust in the Lord and worship Him in the way that makes the most sense according to His plan for your life wherever you find yourself on a Sunday morning during vacation. I can definitely see the benefits of that approach and the only real risk I see is that I won’t get to watch you slide across a wooden pew in a streak of Hawaiian Tropic oil like a glazed ham. But if you’re not going to consider my enjoyment of that moment and my needs, then go for it, pick the fifth option. Seems kind of selfish of you, but go right ahead.
Did you go to church while on vacation this summer?
What do you do on vacation when it comes to God?
Comments
My husband and I decided to go to church one Sunday we were on our honeymoon in Scotland. Once they found out that 1. we were visiting from the US and wanted to visit their church and 2. we were on our honeymoon… there was no escaping being attacked by the older ladies.
This summer we didn't go to church on vacation…my dad is a pastor, and growing up until about my college years, he felt a need to make sure we went to a church when we were on family vacation…then I think he realized the importance for him to take a vacation from church since it was also his "work" and learned freedom and all that. So, my husband and I tend not to go to church when we're on vacation (except to the Brooklyn Tabernacle when we went to NYC – you can't miss that!), but when it's family vacation, my dad makes sure we have our own church time together. I guess he's skilled in leading church, and it's cool to have a family devo time.
You have to ask yourself the question…why do you go to church in the first place? I'm Catholic, and for me, this answer is a no brainer…absolutely go to church on vacation. I don't go for the sermon, or the fellowship, or the music (praise and worship songs), or even the coffee and donuts after Mass, I go for the 'Eucharist'. To recieve Christ's body, blood, soul and divinity. You see, if I truly believe that wafer is transformed by God's power into Jesus then you better believe I'm goin every Sunday, even when on vacation. So yeah, thats an easy one for Catholics!
Moreover, a holy priest once told me, when we are on vacation, we don't vacate from life, we actually live it to the fullest…in which case this SHOULD mean, more prayer time, more biblical reflection, more time with your family…etc. Do I do that….I do try, I do.
Funny, the only time I've ever gone to church on vacation was 15 years ago when I wasn't even a Christian. I was camping with my (then) boyfriend in southern Colorado, and there was a sunrise service at the campground on Sundays conducted by a local pastor. On the spur of the moment, I said, "Let's go!" My boyfriend looked at me like had sprouted a second head and vehemently declined, but I went anyway. I had no idea why I was doing it, but I went. It was beautiful but awkward for me because they sang hymns with no music or hymnals and of course I didn't know any of the words, so I kind of felt like, you know, "one of these things is not like the others, one of these things isn't the same…" haha. I'm sure God was whispering to me, pursuing me, and that's what prompted me to go.
I did go to church well on vacation this summer. I was in the US and could do that. Now I don't go to church. it's kinda not allowed here or at least wasn't for years.
We do a lot of RV camping with the kids. We always TRY to plan ahead and have a place picked out to worship for the following reasons.
1.) It violates our conscience to put our "me time" ahead of Gods time. And we all know – If it's sin to you, don't do it.
2.) As has been said before, it's fun and interesting to see different ways of doing things in worship. Some experiences have been good, some not so good. Discussing the differences in worship services can make for great family discussions over campfire lunch Sunday afternoon.
3.) Lots of the places we visit are around State Parks are small churches. They are ALWAYS encouraged when a family takes time from their vacation to come worship with their small church. Usually, my small "inconvenience" of having to bathe and put on clean clothes on Sunday morning suddenly turned into an excellent opportunity to edify some Christians in their work.
WIN-WIN. YMMV
There have been occasions where we were unable to find a group to worship with. In that case, we just have RV church with the family. Everybody picks out their favorite song to sing and we make the best of it.
I've found that giving children the consistent example of putting God first (however big or small) is a remarkable teaching tool for them.
i don't go to church when I'm home, why in dog's name would I go on Vacation??
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Growing up as a PK and MK we went to the USA on deputation/vacation. We were in a different church every Sunday morning, evening and Wednesday night. Now with my own family we usually spend our vacations with family around the world so we attend church with them (Ukraine, England, Holland or USA).
I like visiting random churches sometimes because it reminds me of what a first time visitor might feel like, so when I go on vacation, I try to stop by a random church and see what they're about.